In this episode, I discuss how a woman should handle being in love with a man who is not born again. The woman asking the question is in love with a childhood friend who she says, "used to be" born again. Ladies, I don't believe there is a such thing as a man who "used to be" born again - either he is a born again Christian, or he never was one to begin with. Once a person is born again, they have received the life of God, and that life never leaves the person. Instead, it transforms him/her into the image of Christ. Man in his own wisdom has created many exceptions to this rule, but the Bible is clear that a person who is truly born again will not make a practice of sinning, but they will continuously grow, be convicted over the sins they commit, and be turned-off by what they have been delivered from. 1 John 3:9 ESV