Where do you land when times get rough? 
It's really easy to say that you are there for your partner but when it comes down to it are YOU a soft place to land?
A soft place to land is when you can run to your partner with problems, and issues and have just been beaten up, are they there to soften the blow? 
Take into account on how we are there for each other, are you a good place to land? 

Thanks for listening and all your support!