Standards are great things to have. It's a way to plan ahead when you are thinking relationship, particularly in the long term. It can be tricky and confusing if you don't search yourself and identify what really matters to you. We live in a world full of opinions, it can get loud and very distracting and voices in our heads don't easily let up. Stay focused on you, don't let your past limit you, shut out all the voices that say you aren't good enough, keep working on yourself. Be kind to you, mistakes will happen it doesn't mean you don't have what it takes,forgive yourself, build your strength up brick by brick, you deserve the good kind of love don't settle for less.Our Standards are not meant to be the lens through which we judge or label others, they are simply guides to help us walk our journey the best we can. Lets focus on removing the logs in our eyes before we make the speck of sawdust in some else's eyes our business. Here's the link to my walking your journey article
https://nyadidaakoth.wixsite.com/website/post/walking-your-journey

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Take care of yourselves my Kings and Queens, remember to be kind 😘