Are women too objectified in society? And if so why? Is it wrong? We discuss how identity politics as a result of the disintegrative acid of political correctness and the incorrectly applied notion of free speech are leading to a very dangerous far left  where an extreme few think they have the moral high ground in representing everyone of their type. This emotion driven ideal will always lead to disaster as it did in the time of Stalin and Mao because there is no logic to it. Being emotion driven it also seeks rapid change but the glue of our society is there for a reason and attempts to unstick it rapidly will have worrying consequences. We discuss the scientific facts and figures that show that men and women are physically, hormonally, emotionally different and that therefore seeking the same outcome for them regardless of their individual strengths and weaknesses will be suboptimal and not the nirvana that the identitists seek. A simple example is that more males are psychopaths and that there is a higher proportion of men versus women in prison and as CEOs. All being equal the identitists should be asking why men are over represented in prison. The fact is that it is the nature of the sexes especially at the extremes that determine some of the observed differences we see in society. Furthermore by attempting to unstick the glue of society which is based on religious ideals we run the risk not of further equality but of chaos and unhappiness. One of the reasons that the channel 4 presenter Cathy Newman was so aggressively feminist with Professor Jordan Petersen was that a lot of what he said refered directly to her. She even agreed with him when he suggested her male style higher level of disagreeableness was responsible for her success. We suspect what really upset her was the quite inference that she was also unhappy in her personal relationship as a power woman with an overgrown infant of a man. Relationships are not about competition and dominance that is increasingly the case but about equality and teamwork which need to be worked at by both sides. Simple solid management principles apply. Identify some ones strengths and weaknesses and encourage them to follow their strengths and steer them away from their weaknesses. Forcing everyone into the same channels is actually disrespecting people and ironically having the opposite result to which the identitists are seeking.  Afterall self awareness and equal rights for self determination will not lead to the same outcomes for all but it will be the better outcomes for individuals as well as society in general.