We never really think that we can get past things in hardships, periods of grief , loss, or obstacles that otherwise  push us to a scarcity mindset, however , with the right tools, rituals and beginning a planning  stage , execution of that strategy, and implementing those changes, overtime you break that psychological chain thats holding one back from lighting up or illuminating their world and life and making a good stride to move onward and upward. Its easier said than done.