Can we have strong feelings for more than one person? Yes. Can we envision our lives with more than one person (even if wildly different)? Yes. Can we feel sexual desire toward more than one person? Yes. Can we care about and want to support more than one person? Yes. But, if we think about love as a verb, a conscious choice to honor and respect someone, to choose them every day, and to fight for them then, although that is possible with multiple people, it is often more complex and more demanding. Unless we decide to be polyamorous, we are in a position where we have to determine who we will continue to love actively. The question is often not: Can we love more than one person, but if we do, how do we proceed and with whom?