Allowing your child the emotional and mental space to express to you how "what you did" affected them. Allow your child the ability to hold you accountable.!!!??? As parents we don't have all the answers and our children aren't always willing to talk so why not provide a safe place they can turn to and trust. Lead by example not by control. Our learned concepts don't have to be traditional can instill our own beliefs in our children and start new traditions. Let's talk about. No subject is off limits.