In this episode, Ajna Surah shares her profound insights on personal growth, love, and emotional safety in relationships. Drawing from her journey of self-reflection and healing, Ajna explores the delicate balance between financial security and emotional fulfillment. We dive deep into how healing past traumas can transform our relationships and why self-awareness is key to building lasting connections.   Key Takeaways: Self-Reflection & Growth: How personal disappointments can pave the way for self-improvement. Emotional Safety vs. Financial Security: Why real security comes from mutual respect and understanding. Healing from Trauma: The importance of healing past wounds to be a supportive partner in the present. Social Media’s Impact on Relationships: How it creates illusions that affect self-worth and love. What You’ll Learn: How to foster open communication to build stronger connections. Why understanding self-worth is crucial in navigating complex relationship dynamics. The truth about social media’s influence on modern relationships and how to see through the illusions. 🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more deep dives into love, healing, and personal growth. #AjnaSurah #PersonalGrowth #LoveAndHealing #EmotionalSafety #Relationships #SelfReflection #SocialMediaImpact #HealingFromTrauma #OpenCommunication #lovevsmoney 00:00 – Introduction: Ajna Surah on Personal Growth & Emotional Safety 00:21 – The Pain of Self-Disappointment: Navigating Personal Struggles 01:02 – Relationships & Success: Managing Emotions with Successful Partners 02:20 – Fantasy Sports Ad: Prize Picks Introduction 02:42 – Business & Competition: Risks of Being a Target in the Industry 04:11 – Authenticity in Relationships: Why It’s Crucial 05:07 – Women’s Role in Love & Safety: Balancing Emotional & Financial Needs 07:17 – Compromising Happiness: Trading Love for Financial Security 08:40 – Belief in Love: Preparing for Future Relationships 09:29 – Men’s Expectations: The Weight of Providing 09:49 – Unlocking a Man’s Heart: Emotional Safety in Relationships 11:00 – Feeling Safe: The Key to Emotional Connection 12:31 – Communicating Love & Safety: What Men Need to Hear 12:45 – Relationships as Practice: Learning from Every Experience 13:36 – Ajna’s Personal Growth: Adoption and Healing 15:14 – Supporting Others in Love: Identifying Areas of Need 16:57 – Life Lessons: Healing and Personal Growth 18:11 – Parenting Reflections: Healing Relationships with Children 19:33 – Forgiveness & Resentment: The Importance of Letting Go 20:08 – Parental Relationships: Shaping Future Decisions 20:40 – Money vs. Family: The Misconception of Financial Security 21:35 – Choosing the Right Partner: Value in Relationships 23:40 – Recognizing True Worth: The Power of Self-Worth in Love 24:50 – Obedience vs. Safety: Finding Balance in Relationships 25:50 – Personal Growth: Self-Reflection and Resilience 26:20 – The Pain of Holding Back: Emotional Struggles & Growth 27:22 – Love as Service: Giving Without Expectation 28:39 – Love & Intentions: Understanding the Complexity of Relationships 29:47 – Energy & Frequency: Tuning Into the Right Vibe in Love 30:07 – Handling Emotions: Dealing with Emotional Bites in Relationships 31:12 – Being a Fixer: The Challenges of Fixing Other People’s Problems 32:27 – Unconventional Requests: Navigating the Complexities 33:38 – OnlyFans & Fetish Culture: The Emotional Toll of Sex Work 34:34 – Physical vs. Emotional Connections: Understanding the Difference 35:55 – Sex Work & Emotional Weight: Self-Care in Difficult Professions 36:44 – Money vs. Emotional Protection: Breaking Down the Illusion 37:54 – Self-Reflection & Change: Embracing Growth and Healing 38:40 – Creating Safe Spaces: For Personal and Emotional Healing 39:15 – Welcome to the Healing Place: An Invitation to Heal 39:21 – Appreciation & Future Plans: Gratitude and What’s Next 39:35 – Panel Discussions: Featuring Prominent Guests 40:01 – Closing Thoughts: Finding Purpose Through Healing 40:09 – Purpose & Calling: Embracing the Path Forward Join Our Its Up There Podcast Clip Channel now https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEh6Wk40kcNcMJ4t_jtmluw Discord https://discord.gg/GJKXMWQS For all exclusive interviews & more content not here click here https://www.patreon.com/itsuptherepodcast 👣FOLLOW ITS UP THERE PODCAST HOST : INSTAGRAM | fogfo_looney TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@fogfo_looney PATREON| https://www.patreon.com/itsuptherepodcast SUBSCRIBE TO Youtube Channel ➡️ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl_GorAVekpEVDlk1Yc8giw WATCH MORE ➡️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwNIuOcAtoo&list=PLnwwxLxHiDWayq4HPgNYUtsAGvqe3liOOSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.