The Shaws are married and share lifetimes of experiences with extraterrestrials. These occurred both before and after they met. One is a retired health care professional, while the other is a journalist. We discuss their shared and separate experiences. Moreover, it seems there might be an ancestral tie to the alien's focus on Mr. Shaw. We explore crafts, physical descriptions, and communication methods. There are also certain frightening theories. The word "harvesting" arose.