Navigating the parent-coach dynamic as athletes transition into high school can be complex. The relationship between parents and coaches often shifts from one of close collaboration to more defined boundaries. Here’s how to manage this transition effectively and foster a positive environment for your child:1. Establish Clear Communication GuidelinesBefore the Season Starts: Preseason is an ideal time to establish how communication will work between parents and coaches. Set up a meeting with the coach to discuss and agree upon communication norms. This can include:

• Preferred Communication Channels: Email, phone calls, or meetings.
• Timing: When it’s appropriate to reach out, and when it’s best to wait.
• Focus: What topics are suitable for discussion (e.g., general progress, not playing time or other players).

During the Season:

• Respect the Coach’s Time: Coaches are busy, so avoid unnecessary interruptions and respect their scheduled times for meetings.
• Be Solution-Oriented: Approach conversations with a focus on constructive solutions rather than complaints.

Dr. Steve Graef, owner of Mindurance, offers some terrific, effective communication tips for parents.