Despite a happy ending engagement for Gerry and Theresa, it was Leslie’s pain that was front and center in The Golden Bachelor season finale. We felt deeply uncomfortable seeing her fall back into her old, ugly stories about herself and witnessing her enduring anger toward Gerry—but in this Golden Bachelor recap, we discuss why maybe that discomfort is okay.

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