Yesterday we were looking at how great marriage is when things are going well. There’s nothing better than to share amazing experiences with the one you love.. but marriage especially Christian marriage is for life and we all change as we grow older. Our tastebuds change, our aspirations change as well as the realisation of our own limitations. So our hopes and dreams and expectations change too.

When we change together we grow together and become stronger together but when we don’t change together we continue to grow but grow apart and in different directions. The key is togetherness and unity but life and it’s challenges can fragment our focus as we deal with problems on our own and not together as a unit. When this starts to happen disagreements and arguments ensue .

If you find you are arguing more or perhaps talking less to each other then it’s time to reverse the trend and remember why are you fell in love in the first place with each other.