Like an R rated movie we were too young to see, sex used to be this incredible promise on the horizon. For those of us who grew up in religion, it was often this vision of holy joy and Jesus sanctioned satisfaction for our wilder side, all just on the other side of a god ordained marriage. But whether we ultimately ‘followed the rules’ or not, many of us found the shame and confusion brought on by purity culture to be a barrier to our greatest sexpectations and were left with a more Dickensian sense of ourselves. On tonight’s show Kara Griffin returns to offer Nate and Christy an examination of the false beliefs and Victorian era virtues that spoil our fun and to unlock our true sextential. The best of times and the worst of puns, your calls and questions and what’s turning us on this week on SecX!

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