Susan Pilchard Oelze married the late and legendary Birchmere owner Gary Oelze in 2013, and in the ten years they spent together, they grew closer and bonded like they had hoped they would with someone their whole lives, all while he was running one of the country's most revered venues. Learn what it was like to be married to this seminal man of the music world, who we lost this year at 80.

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