We hear a lot of talk about disconnecting. Getting away from the weekend versus disconnecting from one time working relationships aren't the same. Friends disconnect more than connect. What you think you once had is now part of that conversation, "Oh we went our own separate ways." Lebron James has helped teach this nation how disconnection is the advantage. It's not about anybody but himself. Ouch! The reality of how we work and play is always based on who were are surrounding our choices with. If it doesn't suit the moment then a disconnection must be made. There used to be a time when have a word or two served as a great way to help shape the stone that becomes the statue. A great idea these days is about super serving the moment. Society won't let creative minds and leaders rely on their talent but rather their ability to disconnect without having human feelings. You can hear it in the way we talk with each other. Chosen are the words and expressions that put importance on the moment. If you come back in ten minutes someone else has convinced the other to make a different move therefore a disconnection from the original idea is made and the relationship is over. I call that Bend Me Shape Me. If you're carrying any type of luggage you're going to have an extremely difficult time being picked up again. Study the act of disconnection and put into play the requirement of accepting more than rejecting. A lot of success is being lost because everybody wants to be an instant star.