I get very vibrant with multiple colors when someone uses my time to gift their pocket. Vibrant as in verbal. Time is so little. Bit when you keep giving it away. How much time do you have if at any given moment God can call you home? You are not being selfish when you are short on sharing your time. People that want your time are selfish for thinking that you are always willing to just give away your music. Your time isn't a free download. Your time isn't a free cookie at the front of the grocery store. Protect your time. Who cares if you're labeled a jerk? You don't don't need to give away your time in order to feel accepted. When life is over. Will all those that stole your time be with you?