Despite all the amazing advances we’ve made as LGBT folks, many of us feel lonelier than ever. And even though the internet is tying us all together in unprecedented ways, a lot of these digital friendships are virtual and not brick and mortar relationships that stand the test of time.

Today, we’re taking a look at why some gay guys are feeling like they’re trapped at a bottom of a rainbow well while everyone else is having a fabulous party.

Our guest today is a Cruise Director drag queen Alex Kay, who likes to pair up lonely folks at the bars so she doesn’t have to deal with their bullshit.

Plus—

➤ Orlando City Stadium puts in 49 rainbow colored seats in honor of the people who died at the Pulse Massacre in Orlando.

➤ Producers of When We Rise are blaming the show’s low ratings on young gays for not being interested in their LGBT history.

➤ RuPaul’s Drag Race moves to VH1.

➤ A mannequin catches a murderer.