For many gay men of my generation, we grew up thinking we weren’t just the only gays in the village, but in the whole world.

If we had any chance of sleeping with a guy, we thought he would have to be straight, not realizing gay guys come in all kinds of flavors.

Today, we take a look at the facts, fantasy and phenomena of gay men having sex with straight identifying men. What’s really going on here? Listen as we take a look at a new study about straight guys who get it on with other men and the internet industry that makes money from gay men’s straight trade fantasies with spammy videos that promises to land you the man of your dreams with this one weird trick.

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➤ Katy Perry says she spent much of her youth trying to pray the gay away at Jesus Camps, and as an adult does not identify as straight.

➤ California Democrats plan to launch a statewide single payer healthcare system.

➤ Star Trek actor Sir Patrick Stewart reveals he uses marijuana daily to deal with arthritis.

➤ Felicia O’Dell, the video cooking superstar best known as Auntie Fee, has died, she was 59.