Today on #coffeewithatherapist, we are talking about type 1's (also known as the "reformer" or perfectionists) in love - their tendencies, ways of expressing emotions, etc.

If you have no idea what I'm talking about when I say "Enneagram type 1" refer to the bottom of this and take the short RHETI test to find out more about the 9 types (and what YOUR type likely is).

Type #1's in love: you require a lot of reassurance that you are appreciated just for being yourself. You need this reassurance often because you are SO hard on yourself. You'll likely be happier with those who see the good in you and are more agreeable around flaws and the messiness of life.


You're most likely to be attracted to someone who values your good advice and who takes on their "equal" share of work.

If you don't know what your number is, you can do the Rheti short version via http://ow.ly/Mjj950zIFJO
or the long version through the Enneagram institute.

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